come back a-new

i'm dying to take photos outside . but i really have to settle the school things first thing first . oh , anyway Happy New Year ! It's 2010 , may this year we will be blessed with more achievements and success .


actually i found this at someone's blog while i was blog-hopping yesterday . it's really a great situational writing . maybe it's worth reading just to keep in mind for the new year ,cause you won't want to make the same mistakes over and over again , so this thing make me realised . check it out :

You can hate a person just by looking at her/him: the hair, the smile, the look, the clothes. Anything can trigger negative feelings. You just have to go with that flow and any proof that person is not horrible will have no influence on you.I don’t know if we could say a good thing about every person we’ve met so far, maybe they haven’t impressed us in a positive way, but we can most certainly bitch about all of them. There must have been something to annoy us at one point. It’s only human! For every nice gesture and person who smiled thanks to you, there is an unhappy person, someone who feels neglected or discriminated against.


It’s human to be annoyed, but above that, I think it’s human to be hatable (being available for hate).


We are hatable with every gesture, every choice we make and tear we drop. Because all these are movements on a map filled with people and, inevitably, when we go one way we get closer to some and estrange from others. We are, in essence, controversial.

Some are more controversial than others, true. It depends on how far we move from the center of the map or, in other words, how extremist we are. And how much we show of our personality we show to others. But still, we are always lovable to some and hatable to others.


That’s the breakthrough. We’re both good and evil, pleasant and repulsive, smart and stupid. It only depends on where we’re standing when we’re judging. There is no black and white. And that’s why the big picture is important: we need to see the balance between the smiles and the tears someone provokes. And the reasons. The intentions. The more information we have, the better we see the tone of gray.


Anyway, we are hatable. That’s our most human trait. Every person stands for the things another one hates. That’s life.

so yeah , that actually inspired me a lot , telling tales about life and human's life , how it goes . aha , hatable , now you know the meaning .

I really , really hope that this new year 2010 will make me a better person with my own hardwork and the help and support behind me . and i can't wait to come back to school . and just this morning i had a dream . no , not a story to tell , it's for me to keep and for you to not asked . hahahaha , ok , lame .

oh , and i got a new haircut just yesterday ! i kinda love it but i will aimer it more if it gets longer a bit just above the shoulders . yes , i cut it like alex evans . ok , got to go now . bye-bye .